Makara sankranthi 2014

                   Its Makara sankranthi....... Happy pongal to my darling hubby...,Happy sankranthi to all my loved ones.....

      Lately, many things happening at home.... pappa's birthday..., mamma's visa work...... and many other work.....we get busier as we grow....I dont get enough time to blog......

                   I have been watching now for few days about how we humans play the blame game......

When is that when truly anybody agrees for the damage they cause.., for the hurt they do...., for being irresponsible.....? We all think we are perfect! and never take the responsibility for the mess we create.....

Acceptance of who you are solves 100 problems in one go......We should learn to accept ourselves about who we are.....It is so easy to blame others for all the faults we do......The moment we accept and realize our faults there is always scope for improvement.....Nobody is perfect in this world.......This fact we must accept.......And nobody becomes small when he/ she accepts his/ her fault......we often throw our stress on others and expect them to be good with us....how is it possible....? what you give, so you receive....If you frown on others people will frown on you.....If you are not bothered about others....,others will not be bothered about you.....If you donot offer help in others difficult time, others too will do the same.....world works like this....smile at the world and the world smiles back at you.......correct not others but, correct your ownself....There is always scope to correct oneself......

 'Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can change and the wisdom to know the difference.' - Karl Niebuhr.

Happy New year 2014

                 Its 2014...... Once again its new year, and time to start our journey afresh again......

               New year is always a time for me to have a look at my life and bring in changes in which ever area of my life I wish to change...... we partied on december 29th 2013.......a right way to start new year...... It was fun to be with entire family......

               I have been reading few astrology sites on net about yearly predictions.....Some I believe some I don't ! because, I think no human can predict other humans future accurately...If it would be then he becomes God ! There are few astrologers whose knowledge in astrology is immense....but there are few who talk superficially.... Predictions comes close to accuracy when you combine knowledge with wisdom, experience and intuition.... Whatever if we work hard result is always good.......what you sow, so you reap.....In this age, everybody works hard.....and everybody gets the good result......but what matters is how long will it last?.... How long will it last depends on which path have you walked....what attitudes you behold......what means have you used to achieve........ karma plays a major role in everybody's life.......what goes around comes around...... life becomes beautiful when we make our lives simple.......I always believe in........"Karmanye Vadhikaraste Ma Phaleshu Kadachana, Ma Karma Phala Hetur Bhurma Tey Sangostva Akarmani" ......... We as humans have all the right to do our work.....everybody on this earth has the right to work for his living......There is no big or small work....Work is work..... but what we get back for the work we do is totally in God's hands....We may or may not be recognized for the work we do.....we may or may not be successful for the work we do......whatever may be the outcome, good or bad, work and leave the fruits in gods hands.....work for the work sake and not in the expectation of any fruits...don't work with the attachment of desired expectation.....work and surrender everything in God's feet.....We are alive and hence we must work......wisdom towards God must not lead to inaction.....work and its fruits belong to God....but,that should not make us inactive......so, lets work, work, and work and leave the rest to God......He is the care taker of this world.....He will take care of everybody.......Happy new year my dear darling hubby , mamma , pappa, and punni n sakshi........May this year bring all of us lots of happiness....prosperity and peace......love u all......love you sona(shiva)......